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Potential/Current Stallion PSA

Okay, we need to have a little chit chat about a rather irritating trend I have noticed. This one is for all you potential stallions who have won the attention of a vixen and current stallions who have won this vixen’s attention. It could be a flirty conversation or a night of sexting or even a night of sex. Whatever the level of attention, congrats, you just lucked out on an experience most men would die to have (I know this because I receive messages all the time from guys saying exactly that). Unfortunately, I have found a lot of guys fail to understand the distinction between a vixen relationship and a traditional relationship when it comes to the pursuit and maintenance of her attention. Why is this important, stallions?

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The Training Event

I am now convinced that sex is an art. There are so many dynamics to good sex and some we have already covered. Pick any artistic medium and you will find people who are just naturally gifted. Some become skilled through lots of practice. Good sex is a unique art, however, because proficiency and ability are not always understood. Obviously it’s a difficult subject to broach because like many arts, critiques are often taken as criticism. And when it comes to sexual critique, the levels of sensitivity are amplified tenfold. So sexual performance is typically not discussed which means sexual performance does not typically get better. Part of the game for a vixen is finding the lovers who are actually good in the art of sex. You may be surprised how many pretty faces don’t really know what they are doing in bed.

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AdultFriendFinder Review

It began as a curiosity. The pandemic just locked down the nation. I was stuck at home with the rest of humanity and feeling that itch to play. With no clubs and conferences what was a horny vixen to do? This began my search to find some sexual release. Dating apps weren’t going to work because I wasn’t about to hook up during the height of the pandemic. I looked at some sexting apps but wasn’t too impressed. Most were populated by sex workers looking to make money. Not my venue so I kept Looking.

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Sexy Science

Okay. Full disclosure. Sex toys are fun.

I love walking into a sex shop with my stallion or stag and browsing all the many varieties of erotic play. There are sensuous things and experimental things and even silly things. Sex toys are fun because sex is fun, especially with the right person. What is the right person, you might ask? I have a great post about it here. In a nutshell, I love a confident man. I love a man who does not feel the tired old feelings of insecurity, jealousy, and suspicion (I had enough of that in a past life). Most of all, I love a man who is open to new experiences.

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