A Sexy Redemption

Well my Dear Readers, it has been a long time since I updated and I do apologize! A lot has been going on (moving, changing careers, finishing a degree, etc.) but I want you to rest assured your favorite vixen is still very much here and I’m excited to catch you up on all my sexy Vixey adventures! Now, it’s important to note not everything follows a strict chronological order. Sometimes I like to jump around and for this next particular story, I’m going to do a call-back to a former story so I can demonstrate an important point. Bad experiences can have happy endings. It just takes some personal maturity and accountability to “rise above the meh”.

A Dance to Remember

We met at a dance event a few years ago. Alonso was a fun, quirky guy who captured me with his humor and genuine good nature. He was also a very handsome man who could dance, which you’ll recall is one of my favorite things. We hit it off. It was an easy, casual acquaintanceship that I figured would be a weekend friendship and done. We exchanged numbers at the end. I did not think much of it and in truth we didn’t really communicate for about a year. I wound up back in his area and dropped him a text. We got together with some of his friends for a fun night of dancing and that’s pretty much how the friendship happened. I’d fly in, we’d get together for dancing and then life would happen for the both of us and it would be another year before we saw each other.

Porn: The Good, The Bad and The Meh

He was a contact I had made from overseas. We worked in the same industry so there were a few connections that piqued my interest. I also liked the way he bantered. Nick was fun and playful and soon the playfulness evolved into something more flirty. I was enjoying our dynamic, the organic growth of this particular relationship. The only problem? We were quite literally on separate continents. Sexting helped. I enjoy a guy who knows how to use the medium and excite my mind.

Adventures in AFF: Part 2

What I have learned about AFF during my time exploring it: the platform definitely has its place in the world of adult connections. Mostly, these connections are brief flings.

When I think about AFF I can’t help but imagine a huge pool filled with fish. If I cast my line into the pool, I have absolute certainty in the catch. If I want a fish, I can go to AFF and catch a fish. The thing about this pool and these fish is the equal certainty of the experience. You see, AFF is pretty much a catch and release pool. The fish are all typically the same type. Of course, you have your outliers but for me the AFF experience is more about the thrill of the fishing experience than finding that perfect catch. So, the question becomes, is this a positive? Like all things in life, it boils down to a matter of perspective and context.