Growing in Open Marriage

Vixey was born out of a desire to journal my experiences, not only to remember the sexy, fun times but also to look back on my growth in open marriage through an honest lens. There are so many positives. You can read about them here. But there are also a fair share of difficulties. Take Lorenzo for instance. After the encounter in the hotel, he went on to ghost me. Literally that evening at the club, there was a sudden awkwardness and distance. We are talking a complete 180 in the relationship.

The fuck!?

Love and Stallions

A question that comes up a lot, and understandably so, is the question of love in an open marriage. How can I have relationships with other men and not fall in love? How do I protect the love I have with my stag? What if I love one more than another? What if a stallion falls in love with me?

Reflections

Some things I’ve come to find in this lifestyle, I never quite expected:

When Armando pressed me up against the wall of the nightclub and kissed me, I could have never imagined the whirlwind change of things. And truly everything changed. But it happened with such effortless ease, I pause sometimes just to wrap my head around it. “I’m in an open marriage. I fuck other men and I love it and my husband is supportive of me. Our bond has never been stronger.” All those amazing benefits I’ve come to recognize and wrote about earlier still exist.

Rules for Stallions

So I was thinking about this next post and realized I’d covered rules I share with my stag regarding open marriage but had only briefly touched upon the rules I have with stallions. I thought that might be an interesting topic, especially given the questions I get at my website pertaining to the specifics of my open marriage arrangement. As always, this is simply my perspective and I’m sure every vixen as her own preferences when it comes to the rules that govern stallion/bull relationships. Nevertheless, I am hoping some of these thoughts might help would-be stallions and soon-to-be vixens get a glimpse into one lady’s perspective.