OkCupid Observations

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Hello readers and thank you for always sticking with me, even when life can be a challenge! I promise I haven’t gone anywhere and in fact I have a lot of stories and thoughts I’m excited to share with you. First up? Some thoughts on a certain dating app I’ve recently tried. Okcupid is something a lot of you recommended I review. I’m glad I did! When it comes to dating apps, I found Okcupid to be far more intentional about being inclusive of alternative lifestyles. When building my profile, there were so many options to present the real, authentic me. For instance, instead of being pigeon-holed into monogamy and then having to drop a cheeky explanation in my bio, the Okcupid format had poly and open built in as options. Yippie for transparency!

Vixey’s Valentine’s Day Weekend

It was Valentines weekend and I had a special friend on the way to help me celebrate. Giovanni had booked his flight. He was set to arrive and then the two of us were going to head out of town for a fun little get-away. Up to this point, I had been working very hard so I was excited for an escape and having Giovanni there with me was icing on the cake.

Potential/Current Stallion PSA

Okay, we need to have a little chit chat about a rather irritating trend I have noticed. This one is for all you potential stallions who have won the attention of a vixen and current stallions who have won this vixen’s attention. It could be a flirty conversation or a night of sexting or even a night of sex. Whatever the level of attention, congrats, you just lucked out on an experience most men would die to have (I know this because I receive messages all the time from guys saying exactly that). Unfortunately, I have found a lot of guys fail to understand the distinction between a vixen relationship and a traditional relationship when it comes to the pursuit and maintenance of her attention. Why is this important, stallions?

AdultFriendFinder Review

It began as a curiosity. The pandemic just locked down the nation. I was stuck at home with the rest of humanity and feeling that itch to play. With no clubs and conferences what was a horny vixen to do? This began my search to find some sexual release. Dating apps weren’t going to work because I wasn’t about to hook up during the height of the pandemic. I looked at some sexting apps but wasn’t too impressed. Most were populated by sex workers looking to make money. Not my venue so I kept Looking.