So I was thinking about this next post and realized I’d covered rules I share with my stag regarding open marriage but had only briefly touched upon the rules I have with stallions. I thought that might be an interesting topic, especially given the questions I get at my website pertaining to the specifics of my open marriage arrangement. As always, this is simply my perspective and I’m sure every vixen as her own preferences when it comes to the rules that govern stallion/bull relationships. Nevertheless, I am hoping some of these thoughts might help would-be stallions and soon-to-be vixens get a glimpse into one lady’s perspective.
Rule number one: Discretion. In a past tweet (don’t forget to follow me on Twitter), I essentially gave the formula to fucking me and at the heart of it was friendship. I enjoy the rush of sex with my stallions but, just as much, I want to legitimately enjoy their company. The natural environment for developing friendships often includes others which means absolute discretion when someone develops into a stallion. Suffice it to say, open marriage is not the most widely understood lifestyle. And I simply can’t afford the time or energy to field a million questions or manage the feelings of those who might not approve or understand. The easiest answer is simply to be discreet.
Rule number two: Don’t neglect the attention/friendship-side of our arrangement. I’m not interested in being someone’s booty-call only getting attention when a stallion needs a good fuck or wants to get off by sexting at 1am. I already know I’m worth WAY more than that kinda shit, so don’t try it. So, essentially, don’t neglect me until it’s convenient for you.
Now it’s important to note that these rules apply just as much to me as it does to my stallion. And while I don’t struggle so much with the latter, I do have issues with discretion at times. Can ya blame a girl? My fuckin’ sexy stallion is pressed against me on the dance floor and I’m supposed to maintain absolute transcendent control!? I get wet just thinking about it. Still, it’s a rule and something I make sure to respect.
So, as you can see and much like the rules with my stag, I don’t have many. But those I do have are golden. I also feel they encompass a lot. Discretion implies the need for respect. Not neglecting the friendship ensures I stay interested. In the end, this lifestyle is simply about having fun and making deep, meaningful connections. The fact that the fun involves copious amounts of mind-blowing sex is a gift for all involved, myself included.